This is a rather interesting topic, which in my opinion has not been covered much.
The difference between erotic massage and ordinary massage is that we deliver sexual pleasure, it often happens that we bring it to orgasm without bringing it to intercourse, or it is a very good foreplay, which incredibly excites and awakens desire, including for new experiments.
With what to start an erotic massage?
The most important – do not hurry, you are not just back rubbing, your task is to relax the girl, to excite her, and perhaps even bring her to orgasm. Massage can last for 20 minutes, or even a few hours.
In my experience I can say that the first good result could get only an hour and a half massage.
First, you need to prepare the room. Dim the lights, you can light incense, and most importantly, the room must be warm so the body is comfortable without clothes. So if your balls are shrinking, you should still warm the room, your girlfriend, without movement will be even worse, and there will be little pleasure if she will be cold.
Okay, the room is ready, here she is, in front of you lies shy sexy and crazy beautiful girl. You need to take off all your clothes (not from yourself, from the girl, although you can also take them off yourself, but here everything is individual and look at the reaction of your partner), if the girl is shy, you can leave panties and take them off later, when she is completely relaxed.
You need to lie down on your stomach, this position is the best way to start, start with your neck, shoulders, rub your back, you don’t need to get into the crotch and stick your finger there – do not do that, you will make a fool of yourself and you will take away all your desire. Remember – everything is very sensual and tender.
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Start with the back, neck, shoulders, do not forget that you need to kiss your partner, for example, while you massage her back, rubbing the oil, kiss her ass, do not lick it, just a couple of touches, it already excites her.
It’s very important not to pour the oil on her body right away, if it’s cool – either warm it up in your hands first, or warm up the oil itself.
After the back gently go lower, if the room is still cool, then the part of the body that you are not working with can be covered with a blanket.
Gently massage the butt, you can put a little pressure, touch the inner surface of the thighs, gently.
Pay special attention to her butt, there are several points on it that show how relaxed the girl is and in general how realistic it is to get an orgasm from the massage at this moment.
Scheme of points for a girl’s massage
There are four points on the diagram. The first two (1 and 2) are the points that should be relaxed; when pressed they may cause pain and discomfort. Gently massage these points, pressing gently. Also pay attention to points 3 and 4 – they should also be well massaged.
From the butt gently go down to the shins and feet, before you start you can shower them with kisses and then go to the massage, massaging feet helps a lot to relax, alternate legs and butt, especially the first two points on the butt, by them you can understand how relaxed a girl is.
Are these magic points? Rather no than yes, but still – the physiology of the body is such that yes, they are in some incredible way connected with how relaxed a girl is and how realistic it is to bring her to orgasm in this state.
How long is the back and butt massage?
Definitely not 5 minutes, look at the situation, catch the answer from your partner – but there’s no need to constantly ask – do you like it or something like that, aren’t you bored, and you, and here and so on, this you will only irritate your partner, especially if she’s shy.
I would give you 40 minutes for this action, during this time she’ll be able to relax, the tension will subside, everything will relax, and excitement will appear.
Once you’ve massaged her legs, butt, then if her back is covered with a blanket – take it away and massage her whole body to warm it up. I think five minutes is enough for that.
After that you can ask her to roll over on her back.
If the girl is embarrassed, a good solution is to put a blindfold over her eyes, this will make her more relaxed and it will be easier for you if you yourself are worried.
Another thing, if you massage her completely naked and lying on her back she will be aroused by a standing cock – she will be aroused by this too. But try to do it in such a way that she is still not distracted by it and tries to put it in her mouth, for example
Start massaging her belly and rub the oil slowly along and around her breasts.
You can kiss the nipples and around them, here you look at the reaction of the girl – some people like it, some do not. Try to squeeze her nipples in your fingers, but do not overdo it, there is no need to tear them out and also watch her reaction. Pick what she likes and remember it.
From the tummy and chest move on to the arms and legs, completely coat it with oil and gently rub it, also pay special attention to the feet, and begin to move a little to the inner thighs, but try not to touch the crotch.
Depending on what position you will be in, you can put your cock in her hand, let her play with it for a while, but don’t let her get too carried away.
By this time her lips (labia) will already be swollen and horny.
Here is very carefully, do not go straight to the hands, because it is a very sensitive area and can deliver both pleasure and discomfort imagine you have a dry hand rubbing the head, for example, and there a dozen times all the sensitivity.
Liberally oil your hands and press your palm to her crotch, with the other hand massage her belly and breasts, you can also at this point kiss her nipples, if she likes it, or kiss the neck.
Here you can snap and move on to intercourse, but keep yourself in control and do not give in).
Continuation has many options – you can go on to stroke her crotch and gradually switch to the clitoris, the second option is to put your index finger inside and feel a small thickening, about 2 to 3 centimeters from the entrance – and start gradually pressing on it in an upward motion. This is the so-called G-spot.
Next you need to feel a response from your partner – when you need to accelerate the pace, but do not forget to engage your other hand – to caress your belly, breasts
This is when you will already be on your way to orgasm, and rhythmic movements either at the clitoris or inside the vagina, which can bring the girl to orgasm.
If you do everything right, take your time, and bring her to orgasm (it does not always work), then she will run around with a mattress, which will give you its advantages, right ?
Good luck and do not be afraid to experiment
